Barry and Denise's Travel Page -- Our Bougie Winter
Winter 2023: Our Bougie Winter
 
September - October 2022: Lest We Forget - A Postcard From France
 
September - October 2021: In a pandemic
 
September 2012 - March 2021: The missing years
 
October 2015: To France's earliest corner
 
October 2014: A step back in time in France
 
October 2011: Old places, new destinations -- a visit to Istanbul and the Aegean
 
October 2010: France is for friends
 
March 2008: Portugal -- a new frontier for us
 
May 2006: No ulterior motives this time -- it is time to relax and be tourists again
 
May 2005: More adventures in the Languedoc
 
June 2003: The airline is going bankrupt; France’s civil service is on strike. Will that keep us from our chateaux on the Loire?
 
February 2003: The Caribbean in winter is tantalizing, but we like London better than Punta Cana. Why?
 
June 2002: The world cup rocks Italy as we nest in Tuscany.
 
September 2001: Terrorism grips the west; there is peace in Languedoc.
 
August 1999: The C te d Azur beckons us back a year later.
 
June 1998: We visit the C te d Azur after a two-decade absence; the world cup is played out in France.
 

Our Bougie Winter

Prologue

Our bougie winter of 2023 begins a year earlier, in Florida. January 2022 marks our first post-pandemic visit, and little has changed in the two years we have been absent. There is a certain comfort in the familiar, but the urge to go further afield, to seek out something different, still drives us.  We decide to put the condo up for sale. It is sold within hours of the listing being published, a fine coda to our winters in Florida.

We are on a new, blank page of our adventure story.

January, 2023

The airplane banks gently over the Mediterranean toward the port city of Málaga, Spain, nestled at the foot of surrounding mountains in the southern region of Andalusia. The flight was uneventful but, given recent horror stories of widespread cancelled flights and misplaced luggage, we are concerned when our suitcases do not show up on the carousel. Then we spot an obscure sign, written in Spanish, directing us to another room for luggage originating outside the European Union, and we are soon reunited with our bags and on our way.

We give the taxi driver the address, and we immediately tear off on a roller coaster ride around the cloverleaf ramps out of the airport and onto the highway toward the city. We are shaken left and right before we can even get the seat belts fastened. The speed limit signs say 60. The speedometer says 100. Everything settles down once we enter the thick of city traffic. A short while later we are safely in our apartment, a compact two bedroom unit in an old building with a mix of residences and professional services offices. The building is at the edge of Málaga’s historic centre and pedestrian zone. With no restaurants or bars in the immediate vicinity of the building (thanks to Google Street View when shopping for accommodation) and the bedrooms facing an inner courtyard, we are assured of quiet nights.

It is mid-afternoon. We are hungry and head out toward the Mercado de Atarazanas, Málaga’s central market, two short blocks from our apartment. The large 19th century building, built around a 14th century Moorish gateway, is teeming with activity – food vendors and shoppers. Thinking back on Barcelona’s La Boqueria market, we wonder if there is a place to sit and eat inside, but a cursory glance suggests there is none near the entrance, and jet lag discourages us from going inside the crowded halls to explore. A few restaurants have tables set up on the sidewalk outside with heaters for the mid-January cool and we find two seats there. Barry’s rudimentary Spanish helps us order our first boquerones (lightly battered and fried anchovies, a Málagan specialty), and appetizers of grilled octopus and deep fried calamari. All seafood and fish are brought in fresh every morning and are delicious. The wine, a white Verdejo, typically Spanish and delightfully dry, chimes in at a pleasing €2.50 a glass. Barry asks the waiter if he speaks English. He answers “poquito”, a little bit, as he lifts his hand with thumb and bent forefinger framing a small gap, illustrating poquito. How about French? The waiter emphatically replies no, but some Italian. Barry replies “lasagna”, “pizza”, and we all laugh and two more glasses of wine appear on the table, on the house. It doesn't feel that cold any more, and the jet lag, frankly, doesn’t really matter, either.

We wander the pedestrian historic centre a bit, admiring the architecture, browsing the storefronts, taking in the post-Christmas clearance sales (“rebajas) plastered across display windows, marveling at the crowds of people going every which way on the marble-paved streets, wondering if we will ever make sense of the labyrinthine layout of the historic centre. We stop in a grocery store for coffee and breakfast items and then, later that evening, settle in for a long comfortable sleep.

The next morning, we head out to the Alameda Principal, the parklike boulevard that follows the old defensive wall that once separated the city of Málaga from the port. The three-block treed stretch of the Alameda, just one block away from our apartment, is now a series of stops for most city buses, a convenience we will soon learn to appreciate. Beyond the bus area, the Alameda borders a large park beside the pedestrianized port area on one side and major baroque-era buildings, including the city hall, adorned with columns and carved sculptures and carved flower garlands on the other side.

The tourist office is located at the edge of the park area and the main pedestrian entrance to the pleasure-boat part of the port. We ask about flea markets and local transport, among other things. The agent takes out a map, marks up all sorts of bus routes and points of interest, describing the options in excited, high-speed accented English. The faster she speaks, the more the English words seem to morph into Spanish. We thank her and walk out not much better informed than when we went in. We find it odd that in a tourist city, notorious for having many visitors from the UK, there is no literature offered in the tourist office in English. It turns out that Málaga is fairly easy to navigate and the public transit system inexpensive and reliable outside the historic centre. And Spanish is not that indomitable, either. We assimilate useful phrases and menu items quickly. Barry needs to unlearn some South American Spanish peculiarities picked up during work trips to Venezuela decades earlier.

Public transit aside, Málaga’s historic centre is car-free and always a delight for walking. The district reflects its re-development in the 19th century as the home of the business bourgeoisie, and a stroll in there is a visual treat. Most streets offer a baroque urban architecture, 4-6 storeys, with tall French windows and wrought-iron Juliet balconies everywhere, many of these with overhanging glassed-in enclosures. Curved building corners (apparently to aid in ventilation during hot summers) and decorations are reminiscent of the Spanish Modernist movement during the Art Nouveau period and large carved doors and inner garden patios with flowers and fountains and arches reflect even older Iberian and Moorish traditions. Wrought-iron trim, arched upper windows and tower-like roof structures complete the Hispanic look and feel of the architectural landscape.  Ground floors are typically allocated to businesses, and shops and restaurants abound with many terraces opening up on the pedestrian streets turning the area into an entertainment magnet for tourists and locals alike.

Remnants of Málaga’s Moorish and earlier history abound in the centre with former mosques that have survived as churches today, their spacious square interiors reflective of their original use rather than the long rectangular basilica form of Catholic church more common in Renaissance Europe. The distinctive red brick and white stone checkered exterior design of these buildings, remnant of the Mudejar style of Iberian architecture of the Middle Ages, sits in harmony with the more rococo bourgeois neighbours. Inside the churches, the overwhelming brilliance of gold and silver – statues, ornament, vessels – remind us of the riches taken by Spaniards from the Americas in the 16th century to fund their religious wars in Europe. But this is only one chapter of Málaga’s rich history. Older relics include the remains of a Roman theatre and an 11th century military fortress, the Alcazaba, whose maze of turrets and lush courtyards are still intact. Dominating one corner of the historic centre is the Málaga Cathedral, started in the Middle Ages on a square mosque footprint, and after 250 years of construction, an unfinished symphony of Gothic, Renaissance, and Baroque beauty, towering over the avenues and plazas below.

The port is adjacent to the historic centre and has been in continual use since Phoenician times for trade. With a very busy commercial section of the port on one side, the pleasure boat section is a magnet for people, a place to stroll that is a mere 15 minute walk from our apartment. There are gardens, shops, restaurants, yachts, and cruise ships (although these are rare in winter). Food offerings range from Burger King to Michelin-starred and shops offer every type of ware, with an open market for jewelry and clothes and leather goods set up along the pier a few times a week. Buskers are everywhere, performing everything from Spanish classics to American pop, dance, sensual tango duos, break dancing, and acrobatics. Some days we count the number of times we hear the famous Romanza for guitar. The Málaga bullring, one of the most prominent in Spain, is at the edge of the port, but there are no events there in the winter.

On the other side of the port, off Alameda Principal behind our apartment, is Soho, an old neighbourhood being revitalized with restaurants, galleries, a theater, and major wall paintings. At the north end of the historic centre, 20 minutes from home, is the treed Plaza de la Merced, lined with tapas bars, always a pleasant place to stop for a glass of Sangria and some tapas and people-watching. We never run out of options for our daily wanderings.

But this is just a picture postcard, a backdrop for a thriving downtown for a city of a half-million people, and another half-million stretching across the neighbouring and largely touristy Costa del Sol communities from Torremolinos to Marbella.  Whenever we step out, the streets are full of people, just strolling or busily moving in every direction, shopping bags in hand, or sitting at one of the many terraces enjoying food and drink in the comfort of the midday sunshine or the ubiquitous outdoor patio gas heaters that provide warm comfort from the cool mid-winter air. Many of the streets are paved with marble tile, the mirror-like shine adding a note of elegance to tony shopping avenues. Wide Calle Larios, lined with high-end shops and always full of people walking in every direction, many pushing baby strollers, stretches from the port to the Plaza de la Constitución in the centre of the historic area, and is adorned along its length with an array of light garlands changing regularly according to the city life. At this time, the Christmas displays are being removed and replaced by colourful light designs highlighting masks for the upcoming Carnival. Nearby, Calle Granada has a carnival-like atmosphere of its own with wall-to-wall restaurants and tabernas, spilling off into the side streets. We are impressed by the overall cleanliness of the streets – city crews are constantly on duty and residents seem to do their part, too. And even the garbage cans say "gracias".

There are some beggars in the streets, too, to be expected in a city where there are always many people visiting, but, overall, the streets in the historic centre feel very safe. We learn that a beggar at the entrance to a church means that the church is open for visiting. One afternoon, we are surprised to see a beggar sitting on a chair on the sidewalk with a credit card processing handset. As we get closer, it turns out that the man is not a beggar; he is selling lottery tickets from his oversized vest. Lottery ticket sellers are in abundance around us, in tobacconists, in kiosks, walking the streets, and, on the rare occasion, approaching us as we sit on a restaurant terrace.

Although Málaga and the Costa del Sol are known as a summertime beach and cruise destination, particularly popular with people from the UK, this is winter, and almost everyone around us sports winter jackets and speaks Spanish. They are of all ages, generally well dressed and well groomed, lean and fashionable. The occasional silver-haired couple stands out from the crowd – these are typically snowbirds like us, usually British, Irish, or Canadian, and visitors off the occasional winter cruise ship, strutting their sparkling new designer-labels. However, the majority of the tourist traffic is Hispanic, arriving from the bus and train terminals en masse on Friday afternoon and leaving late Sunday or Monday morning. Málaga is clearly a major weekend magnet in Andalucia.

We find the Spaniards passionate and polite, as we have come to expect from Europeans we have encountered. Wherever we go, in stores, in restaurants, on the street, people greet us with "hola" (hello), but they don't just say it, they sing it “Oh – laaa”, like the notes la-sol on the musical scale. And the passion - boisterous, sometimes loud, enjoying life and community is ever-present in the historic centre. ¡Hola, buenas!, it’s always in the air.

The food adventure

Jet lag behind us, we head to the market, three large halls in a massive 19th century iron structure around the old Moorish gate. In the first hall, dedicated to fruit and vegetable sellers, the stalls are overflowing with colorful products, and it does not take long to fill our tote bags with fresh lettuce and tomatoes, pears and mangos, avocados, olives, nuts and figs. Less familiar is the chirimoya (custard apple) with a pineapple-custardy taste; it is not usually exported. Notable for its absence is the cucumber – the few we find are not very flavourful. Signs telling us not to touch are everywhere; you ask the vendor for quantity and degree of ripeness and they choose and bag the product. (This is similar to Italy; in French markets we are offered bags and choose our items ourselves.) Nevertheless, one vendor quickly recognizes us as regular customers and lets us choose our own fruit by hand.

In the second hall, we pass stalls brimming with the daily catch of shrimp, squid, and octopus alongside rows of snapper, bream, sea bass, and Mediterranean tuna, and we cheerfully allow the vendors to bag our selections for us. In the third hall, the cases display a wide variety of local cheeses, although most of them are variations on firm goat cheese, our favourites the Payoyo and Málaga. We occasionally treat ourselves to the thinly sliced cured Iberian ham, particularly the flavourful one from acorn-fed stock. Outside the market are several bakeries offering a wide array of breads and pastries. The multi-grain breads and pastries are delicious; however, the baguettes and croissants do not achieve the airy texture and sweetness that only French flour can give them so we decide these can wait.

Aside from market-fresh salads and seafood, and the occasional ham-and-eggs breakfast, we rarely cook in our apartment. Restaurants are abundant and affordable.  And tapas, small portions of food, usually served with drink, appear on menus almost everywhere.  Most restaurants and tabernas offer tapas as well as other size options on their menus, such as ½ ración or ración (half or full portion). Some offer pintxos, the smaller-sized bar snack items popular in bars in the Basque country, as well. A few tapas and a few shared half or full racións can turn a restaurant meal into a tasting adventure and the sharing options never cause a waiter to raise an eyebrow.

Every meal out begins with a dish of sweet green olives, brined and herbed, on the table, which, naturally, demands an accompanying glass of wine. Some of the common Málagan menu offerings include

Fritura (literally, fried), represents lots of options – fish, seafood, vegetables – typically lightly battered and fried in olive oil. In particular, the ubiquitous fried boquerones (anchovies) are far more delicately flavoured than the salty marinated ones. The fried eggplant is a delight and has become a standard in our home air fryer.

Ensalada Malagueña, somewhat like the French salade Niçoise with cod fish.

Gazpachuelo, based on the four main ingredients of gazpacho - bread, garlic, oil and water – adds cream, potatoes, seafood and mayonnaise to make a delicious stew-like dish served hot. It turns out that tomatoes are a later addition to the original white gazpacho.

Espeto de sardinas - skewered sardines cooked over an open wood fire in an old metal boat alongside the beach.

Jamón ibérico - the smooth and savoury dry-cured Iberian ham, subject to strict denominación de origen rules.

Originally from Valencia, paella is widely served throughout the Mediterranean region. It is hard to beat the flavour of the golden-yellow saffron-sweet paella we have with our boquerones and dry Verdejo wine at the central market bar.

If there is an absence of meat on this list, it is by choice. Restaurants may offer beef or chicken options, and there are a few steak houses among the other restaurants. We opt for small dishes. From the sea and the garden. Fresh and light. Sweetened with golden drops of olive oil. A glass of dry white wine. A little walk. People watching. This is our Mediterranean diet.

The Spanish clock

The Spanish siesta has a long tradition, dating to when women were not allowed to work and poverty pushed men to work double shifts or take two jobs, taking a mid-afternoon rest between shifts. The most obvious sign of this custom is the closing of shops and services sometime between noon and late afternoon for anything from 2 to 4 hours. Restaurants typically open around 2PM for lunch service and 8 or 9PM for dinner; however, we find a growing number of establishments offering continuous food service. And, of course, tapas are always available in tabernas and bars to fill in the gaps.

We soon adjust to the Spanish clock. We rarely venture out before late morning. If we want to go into any of the shops, we must do so before the noon hour closing, randomly between 12:30 and 2PM, although some stores stay open continuously in the touristy historic centre. A glass of sangria and a couple of tapas keep us going through the afternoon.

At precisely 4:30 PM the churrerias (cafés serving churros, hot chocolate, and coffee) open up and tables fill up quickly for these sweet treats. The street behind the market is lined with churrerias. We call it "Churro row". Families seated at rows of tables along the walls, plates piled high with the freshly fried ridged rods of dough and cups of chocolate.

After that, there is the paseo (the walk), a social walk after work and before supper, as stores open up for the late afternoon and evening hours. It is an important social time for locals and terrace bar tables fill up quickly for a drink and tapas while waiting for restaurants to open up later.

We eat later. We sleep later. We never seem to get out of the apartment before 11 AM or noon. And then there is somewhere to stop for a glass of wine and tapas around 2. Churros on two occasions at 5. More tapas or pinxtos around 8, lingering into the later hours. The idea of “going out for supper” seems out of place here.

Carnival

Rooted in celebrations around Shrove Tuesday and dating back to the 16th century, Málaga’s Carnival is a lively week of music, dance, parades, costumes, and general family fun. Decorative festive street lights depicting masks and garlands go up on the light standards on Calle Larios and the streets leading to Plaza de la Constitución. Stages are set up in the various plazas and barricades to delineate the parade routes.

Friday night, as we are enjoying dinner on a terrasse, a brass band marches through the historic centre. We do not know where they are going, but on Saturday morning, our favourite vegetable vendor at the market stumbles in mid-shift, bleary-eyed, blue streaks in his hair, and all a-smile. Carnival has begun.

That evening is the official opening ceremony of the Carnival at the Plaza de la Constitución followed by the election of the Carnival Gods and Goddesses. Calle Larios is lined with seating for spectators but, with the cool breeze in the air, we opt to watch the proceedings form the comfort of our apartment via local TV. There, we can appreciate each of the candidates for God and Goddess in their elaborate costume adorned with three-and four metre high extravagant, colourful feather constructions, all assembled in a walking float that they parade up and down Calle Larios.

On Sunday, after a day of children’s events, the opening parade winds its way through the city centre, passing in front of our apartment. The streets are lined with people – families, children in costumes -- in eager anticipation of the spectacle. There is electricity in the air as we hear the distant drumming that seems to take forever to come around the corner. And then our patience is rewarded as the first dancers appear – girls on stilts covered by large balloon dresses, marching to the persistent drumming of men and women in pirate costumes, leaning in  rhythm to the left and then leaning to the right, and followed not far behind by a two-storey tall float with the head of a jester, pulled by costumed jesters throwing handfuls of confetti at the crown, and then more dancers and marchers and floats and confetti. Most of the marchers are school-age. One group celebrates football, teenagers dressed in soccer uniforms and several young boys dressed as soccer balls, the players tossing the soccer ball-clad boys several metres in the air and then catching them to the music. All the candidates for God and Goddess of the carnival join the parade in full regalia. Children strut with more bags of confetti. Children spectators pick up the confetti from the street and throw it again. More floats. Mickey Mouse. A genie. A world globe. More bands. It is getting dark as evening settles in and the lights on the floats and costumes begin to cast a glow. Recorded music drives the marchers. ¿Quién tiene café? Yo tengo la leche (Do you have coffee? I’ve got the milk). Pitbull’s “Café con leche”, a song about an interracial relationship, is lost on the crowd celebrating coffee as the Spaniards drink it. An hour after the parade began, the last float and dancers pass and the spectator crowd joins in the march behind them to the Plaza de la Constitución, where the opening concert is sure to entertain. We are content to return to our apartment and enjoy the music on TV. And within an hour, the city trucks have passed and the street is confetti-free, ready to start all over again.

For the remainder of the week we enjoy music, dance, and costumes on stages throughout the historic centre of the city. On Friday, a big show – the Carnival drag show -- is held in Plaza de la Constitución. Once again, we opt for the TV broadcast instead of the overcrowded streets where sightlines are rare and the thick crowd violates every principle of distancing we have been trying to practice. The drag show is entertaining, more farce than anything else – men dressed up in frivolous clothes, many of them professional dancers, strutting their stuff. There is no pretense here, just good fun.

Carnival ends on the second Sunday, with the burial of the anchovy, a large, colourful papier maché float which is drawn in a massive parade to the beach and set on fire, signifying the preparation for fasting for Lent, which will begin in a few days. But we do not easily forget Carnival – we are still finding the occasional piece of confetti in a coat pocket or in a corner of a handbag months later.

Flamenco

Tucked into a northern corner of the Centro Histórico is a flamenco museum and school which advertises Thursday and Saturday evening shows. We know of flamenco as an iconic form of music and dance from Spain and book seats for a show. We learn that flamenco is deeply rooted in Andalusia, with origins in music from gypsies (who migrated to Spain from 15th century India) and evolving as gypsy, Arab and Jewish groups fled to the remote hills to avoid persecution by the Catholic rulers.

We enter the tablao – a room with raised platform with four empty chairs along the back wall for the performance and ringed by spectator seating. Soon, a guitarist, a singer, and two dancers, male and female, take their seats. She is in traditional garb – a polkadot dress with elaborate pleats and ruffles and a large flower in her hair.

The guitarist begins to play, first familiar-sounding melodies and minor chord progressions evocative of Andalusia and then adding colour as his virtuoso fingers race in a frenzy up and down and across the fretboard. A regular, intense hand clapping from the dancers and bystanders adds a rhythm. Then the singer joins in. His song, in a language we do not understand, is at times mournful, at times full of love, at times on a rhythmic tangent to the guitar, always mesmerizing. The first dancer gets up on the stage and joins in -- a pose, fingers moving, then hands and arms moving fluidly to the music, reminiscent of East Indian dance. The motion flows downward through the dancer, the upper torso moving, and then the feet, first simple tapping, and then progressively more intricate footwork until the music and dance reach a frenetic pace, spinning, stomping, and raising the energy in the room to stratospheric level. Each dancer takes his or her turn, and they dance together. The female dancer lifts and throws the ruffled edges of her dress in the air to highlight her intricate footwork. The male dancer pitches his jacket to liberate his body as the pace quickens. The song, the music, the dance - if at first it all seems improvised, these old songs are well-known and the musicians and dancers are always in synch, supported by the rhythmic hand clapping. It is all very sensual and energetic, and our hearts are pounding until well after we return home. Before we return to Canada, we will have seen four flamenco shows.

 

The museums

Málaga has a large number of museums and galleries, and we visit a few. We recommend the Museo de Málaga which has two collections – an archaeological collection tracing the evolution of Málaga from prehistoric times and the Phoenician city of “Malaka” to modern times through artifacts unearthed here. The other collection focuses on Spanish artists ranging from the 16th to the 20th century. Also, not to be missed is the Museo Carmen Thyssen which focuses on 19th-century Andalusian and other Spanish painting from the collection of Carmen Cervera, the third wife of Baron Thyssen-Bornemisza. Both art collections open up our eyes to the rich tradition of Spanish art unknown to us and that were part of the larger trends in art across France, Holland and Italy, with which we are more familiar. Finally, we enjoy the Museo del Vidrio y Cristal (Glass and Crystal Museum) which is a time-travel trip through the history of decorative arts, mainly glassware, but also furniture, paintings and other decorative objects, from the personal collection of the historian and restorer Gonzalo Fernández-Prieto.

At a suggestion, we visit the Museo Picasso, dedicated to the Spanish artist Pablo Picasso, who was born in Málaga. The museum’s collection was primarily donated by members of the Picasso family. Prepare for the long waiting line to get into the museum at any hour. Once inside, we find the exhibit limited in scope, since the artist’s best works are housed in museums elsewhere. There is little in the way of explanation, even with an audio guide which was often unrelated to the display it was supposed to be describing. Overall, we obtain little insight into the artist and his evolution (especially having seen the excellent travelling show at the Montreal Museum a few decades earlier) and suggest that if you have ever seen any of Picasso’s work, spend the entry fee on tapas instead. Nevertheless, Picasso is everywhere around us, with surrealistic distorted graphics displayed proudly in shops on colourful t-shirts and sweaters and tote bags and fridge magnets in veneration of Málaga’s famous son.

Our passion, antiques

Our passion, however, is antiques, and we have identified several antique shops and some outdoor markets where antiques may be found. We visit the Sunday flea market at the Málaga recinto ferial (fairgrounds), a short bus ride away. This is mostly a venue for new flea-market type of merchandise, with some used wares spread out on tarps, and few items of antique interest. We meet a vendor who explains that the Spanish do not have a tradition of holding on to old things in the same way we have seen in France, where antique appreciation has even become a staple of daily TV. It turns out that she buys antiques in France to sell in Spain as do some other vendors we meet later on. As a result, the prices tend to be high and the selection limited.

Further afield

The one-hour bus ride to Fuengirola offers the opportunity to see some of the Costa del Sol, a a large, narrow swath of southern Spain delimited by a cordillera of mountain ranges to the north and beaches to the south along the Mediterranean. It takes little time for the bus to climb out of Málaga high into the hills over Torremolinos, where the old town is lost amidst the thick of high-rise apartment buildings stretching from the mountains to the sea.

Still hemmed in by the mountains, we continue past a string of other communities. reaching Fuengirola, which is also well-developed as a tourist centre, particularly among British nationals, with hotels and apartments and restaurants lining the beach front. There is also an active fishing port and a preserved historic centre to visit. The bus drops us off in a modest residential area, about a ten minute walk to the recinto ferial, where the expansive Saturday flea market is located. There is a section devoted to antiques, but the prices are high there as we have seen elsewhere, much of that driven by the large number of British expatriates in the area, some of whom are sellers.

The fairground stretches for six blocks toward the sea and two blocks wide. Down the centre is a string of small buildings, identified as peñas. A peña is a cultural association, and these buildings house various peñas dedicated to football, cycling, bullfighting, music, or whatever interest gets people together. Many operate as restaurants as well, and they are active in setting up facilities for concerts and festivals and are involved in charitable events. Of course, during the Saturday morning market, the peñas are closed, their mysteries hidden behind shuttered windows and carved wooden doors.

A later daytrip to Torremolinos confirms our first impression of a beach resort with hotels and apartments stretching along the long coastline with beach bars and souvenir shops all along the way. Nevertheless, in January, the beaches are deserted, and many businesses are shuttered for the season; we do not experience the crowds of European visitors typical during the summer. We stop at the town’s tourist office for a street map and are amused to find that eight out of ten “points of interest” on the map are retail shopping streets. Torremolinos is popular in winter among French Quebecers travelling as snowbirds, and the overall tourism-commercial focus of the city causes us to compare it loosely to Hollywood, Florida.

The Cost del Sol stretches to Marbella, once a sleepy, picturesque village, becoming popular in the 1950s with European aristocracy, and, as a result, developing into a major resort for the international jet set. Having visited St-Tropez in the south of France, with its commercial focus on pricey shops and hotels and restaurants and crowds of designer-clad tourists, we do not see a compelling reason to visit Marbella, preferring bourgeois middle-class Málaga.

Closer to home, Pedregalego beach, within the formal city limits of Málaga, is a short bus ride from the city centre. The old fishing village with narrow streets and small stucco-covered houses has also become a thriving tourist destination of its own with restaurants lining the boardwalk along the beach. Many of the restaurants have olive wood fires burning in old metal boats beachside to cook their famous espetos de sardinas (sardines on a wooden spit) as well as other fish.

Tourism materials advertise side trips to the pueblos blancos (white towns), a series of pretty towns and villages in the hills of Andalusia characterised by their whitewashed houses. However, having been to white towns in Portugal and in Greece, we opt, instead, for a side trip to Córdoba.

The train to Córdoba takes us on an hour-long ride through miles of olive and citrus groves stretching as far as the eye can see as we climb into the Sierras behind Málaga. A short taxi ride from the train station brings us to the historic city centre of Córdoba, considered by many as the oldest continually inhabited city in Europe, a designated UNESCO World Heritage Site, and our home for a two-day visit.

The city centre is dominated by the massive Mezquita-Catedral, originally a Mosque, and now a cathedral. Covering an area of four city blocks, the Mezquita is a fascinating blend of Moorish architecture through the ages, with a full Roman Catholic Cathedral built in its centre.

We tour the Alcázar de los Reyes Cristianos, (castle of the Christian kings) a few blocks away, formerly home to Isabella and Ferdinand of Aragon. Within the walls of the sprawling building and its towers are Roman artifacts and mosaics unearthed during more recent renovations, as well as lush gardens and reflecting pools. Workers are trimming lemon trees, and we collect a few lemons, sweet enough to eat standalone, to take back to our apartment.

We continue to the Sector Sur (Southern sector) of the city, which is a historic old white village on its own. The streets are quiet in the morning in this mostly residential area of whitewashed houses, brought to life by potted geraniums everywhere on walls. The houses typically have garden patios – these are shared spaces inside the multi-family houses, usually decorated with an abundance of plants. These courtyards are celebrated in a Fiesta of the patios for twelve days in May, when many houses open their patios to the public, and compete for the best patio. In winter, the private patios are closed but one woman leaves her door open, inviting us to visit her courtyard. She speaks a little French, and explains the different aspects of her opulent garden, and as she becomes more comfortable that we are understanding her, her French morphs into Spanish. Nevertheless, we enjoy exploring the small arched space replete with columns, potted plants and flowers, vines, and a large, espaliered lemon tree which flowers and fruits monthly, giving fresh fruit all year long. She tells us that if a lemon falls on you, it is a sign of good luck. We thank her and leave a few Euros in a donation box before moving on. It is now lunchtime, and several restaurants tucked in among the houses are opening up. We enjoy a light lunch of tapas and wine before going on.

We book dinner at Doble de Cepa, which advertises free a flamenco show. We arrive promptly when they open at 8PM and are seated in front of the tablao but are concerned about being the only customers in the restaurant for almost an hour. And then, around 9PM, the tables fill up – it is dinnertime in Spain. The artists walk onto the tablao. The music begins. The guitarist, husband of the waitress, is younger than we have seen at other shows, but his virtuosity on the strings belies his age. The singer voices the most heartfelt songs we have heard so far. There is one dancer; she appears to be double-jointed, an orchestra in a body, from the tips of her fingers to the frenetic footwork. At some point, the singer joins the dancer on stage for an old love song duet in the two forms of flamenco. Later on, the dancer invites members of the audience to join her on the stage. Several women take the stage, one at a time, with simple steps, their showy arm, hand and finger movements seeming so easy, reflective of a deep-seated culture of flamenco in Andalusia.  This is the most emotional flamenco show we have seen; this ranks it as the best yet.

The next day, we opt for a guided tour of the cathedral and the Judería, the medieval Jewish quarter of the city.  We start in the Judería, a tangle of irregular streets lined with whitewashed houses. The layout was designed to discourage outsiders from entering the quarter; in spite of the peaceful co-existence of the city’s Jewish and Arab populations for centuries, they did not particularly like each other. Reading the architecture of the 14th century district, the tour guide provides a wealth of information that we might otherwise never have seen.

The tour proceeds to the Mezquita, one of the world's greatest works of Islamic architecture, where our guide capably guides us through the many eras of construction of this monument. The characteristically Moorish use of alternating stone and red brick in the structure was intended to allow for flexibility in case of earthquakes. The state of the building is evidence of the success of the design, with the red and white arched aisles stretching out to what seems to be infinity in all directions (actually 180m × 130m). At the heart of the Mezquita, we cross into a Renaissance cathedral, complete with choir, chapels, altars, and steeple. The richly painted walls and domes and ornately carved angels stand in stark contrast to the surrounding Islamic decoration which, forbidding representation of living beings, consists of complex geometrical patterns and Arab script adorning the rest of the building. We are witness to how Muslims, Jews and Christians lived side by side and enriched their city with their diverse and vibrant cultures.

Friends

We reflect on our past decade of winters in Florida, as we noted earlier, the comfort of the familiar. Much of that familiarity is related to our neighbours, most of whom we knew for a full ten winters, the people we mingled with daily at the pool, or shared Bingo and shuffleboard games, or dined together at home or out. There was time spent with friends in other nearby communities. In Málaga, we are essentially on our own.

As much as we feel at home in Málaga, these six weeks are the longest single period we have been away from family and friends, and we miss that community. Certainly, the terrasse cafés provide opportunities to strike up conversations with other English or French speaking foreigners. We are recognized by the vegetable vendor (who speaks English well), the girls at the counter in the bakery (who appreciate learning how to quote prices in French, surprised at its similarity to Spanish), and the waiter at the market bar, with his perennial smile. We are fortunate to have some friends here – a couple from a few houses up the street from ours in Montreal are also wintering here -- and we take the opportunity to meet with them a few times and share some of our favourite restaurant discoveries. There is the couple on a brief trip from Ireland whom we met at a Flamenco show and with whom we meet a few times for lingering sessions of tapas and drinks.  And Denise’s sister and husband, who come to Málaga for a week and join us for walks and restaurants and the side trip to Córdoba. Málaga has much to be shared.

Back to Málaga

Our stay in Málaga will soon come to an end, and we must move on. We are anxious to see our friends in the south of France, in Le Lavandou, where we will stay for two weeks, and to visit our favourite antique markets, and to enjoy a real baguette before leaving Europe.

It has been a gentle Mediterranean winter. Málaga has reset our clocks, surrounded us with fresh products from land and from sea and wines from the regions, infused our souls with language and music and art, and welcomed us with style and politesse in a uniquely Spanish way. The airport taxi takes us along avenues lined with orange trees in full fruit, past 19th century bourgeois houses that we leave behind us in the historic centre. In the meantime, we consider where in Málaga we might want to stay if we return … that is, when we return … to bougie Málaga.